THE INDISPENSABLE BROTHERHOOD
Childhood joy stems from family
Brothers are like limbs
In Vietnam, there is a common saying that a truly happy family should experience the joy of raising at least two children. This belief stems from the idea that siblings create lasting memories, share invaluable experiences, and form a unique bond. In my family, this notion holds true.
My connection with my younger sister is extraordinary, an unspoken bond beyond words. She arrived on a crisp autumn morning as I stepped into my eleventh year. When I first saw her nestled in my mother’s arms, a wave of jealousy and awe washed over me. Yet, in a reassuring moment, my mother embraced us both, assuring me of her unwavering love.
At first, she hesitated to let me hold my sister, fearing my inexperience. But after much persistence, she agreed, under supervision. The moment I cradled her delicate form, a deep sense of responsibility took root. From then on, I eagerly helped care for her, rocking her to sleep, fetching diapers, and preparing formula.
As we grew, our bond only strengthened. I vividly remember her first wobbly steps and how I rushed to comfort her when she fell. Even now, though she’s grown taller and stronger, I still find joy in lifting her as I once did. My love and protectiveness remain unchanged; she will always be my cherished little sister.
What makes our relationship even more special is her admiration and support. She writes heartfelt letters encouraging me in my studies, striving to make our mother proud. One of the most touching moments was on Vietnamese Women’s Day 2024, when she crafted two cards, one for our mother and one for me to give her in my absence. Her thoughtfulness moved us deeply.
Beyond her kindness, my sister is an incredible artist, filling our home with beautiful paintings and drawings. No matter where life takes me, I will always be her older brother, ready to guide and protect her. Our bond is a treasure, an endless source of joy and inspiration.